Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong?

published on Saturday, January 10, 2009

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“All your words make good. As Michele I have been with a soldier for thirteen years, it has just left for Afghanistan. I feel very badly, but I remain smiling in front of the children. The nights are difficult, I sometimes let themselves invade by anguishes and terrible fears, I wonder whether I will re-examine it, it is very hard to manage. Fortunately I have my work and my children, but the are really of cruel and of testing. The reunion is superb, the routine does not exist, but the absences are a true torture.” Anonymous evidence September 23rd, 2008

Item Ci, published below he there has two years, is more than ever of topicality… You can react and bring your evidences in bottom of the page

I have been woman of soldier for 2 years, we are based in Germany in a Franco-German regiment. In this moment it is in Afghanistan for five months…

One tells oneself: not what to upset a life! and yet… which change. Before meeting it, I was assistant in human resources in a society in Alsace, an enthralling but very fascinating trade until the day when I met it.

by Virginia With the pleasant authorization of Femmexpat.com

At the beginning of our relation not of problem, I could reconcile both very well. In week, it was in its regiment, me I worked, it came to France every weekend, and set out again Monday morning very early. Five months later, its first (external operation) falls, five months of absence, but especially five months of anguish, it is certain that a in a country in full civil war, that does not reassure. At the end of four months and 21 days exactly (He yes, one counts even the days), finally the return! Meanwhile, I really knew a period of large depresses: its absence, the anguish, the stress of my work did not help with my personal blooming. But it is finally there. The firms are not reconciling it was necessary for me thus to make a choice. The solutions appeared very clearly, that is to say I continue to work but in this case good-bye the life of couple or then my professional life between brackets to benefit from his return, to build a future, to make this decision by having the cards in hands, knowing that there will be other , maneuvres, training courses, it is certain time we put missed me, I thus made the choice put in sleep my professional life and believe me it is a very new life.

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Initially I continued to live in France and him in Germany, it made outward journeys returns unceasingly, but each week it was always the same history, the ripping to see it setting out again, I moved thus in Germany in my turn, for finally having a true life of couple and to benefit the maximum of the moments that we could share, and I ended up changing life, and country… And the second arrives, five months to Afghanistan, I must only move and thus embarked here me is in a country which I do not know, with any knowledge on the spot, I must thus only adapt.

I personally have the chance to have a fantastic man who takes care of me, which attaches importance to my happiness, and some is the changes which I made in my life for him, it returns it more to me thousand times. It is clear that these is a lifestyle choice which is not simple and there are positive effects or negative.

To put its professional life outstanding

Indeed all the women of soldier are confronted with this choice at one given moment. His life on side is put, one lives compared to the other and especially it there with the trouble! I think that it is the worst enemy of the women of soldier… When one works and that one stops, whole days ago to fill and it is terribly long, without forgetting that a financial independence is also lost.

People who do not live in such a context, one often of the evil to be understood, and often reproach the women for living only compared to their husbands. On these subjects there is nevertheless an answer, one does not live compared to them, but by their trade. When one lives with a soldier, it is necessary to agree to live with the army, it rate/rhythm the life of the soldiers but that of their wives also. The women of soldier were not forced to live thus but they accepted it, each one is free of its choices and its acts.

Yes, the great institution which is the army rate/rhythm our lives…

The absences and the distances the absences are heavy to manage, one often intends to tell: “but of what you feel sorry for it there with the financial counterpart”

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Admittedly, the economic aspect is important the army pays well the soldiers who leave far from their family (no matter what I think that the price of a life is not to define). But there is very an other aspect to manage, he is necessary to relearn to live alone with each departure. Daily gestures; to only lie down, make its races only, to only arrange… It is necessary to assume two roles each time and to adapt to each return so that the men take again the place which they occupied before the departure.

It is also necessary to learn how to manage a brutal stop of tenderness, love and affection.

But all these stages forge a character, and during the absences, one can discover new passions, new centers of interest, create links with new people, who are very often women of soldiers also, because they understand better what is the distance, and it there with the mutual aid, it is important. The absences of the men make it possible to create a form of balance which can sometimes be beneficial and can make stronger because it is discovered that one can only assume oneself even if it is not by choice.

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I personally lost many friends in the “civilian” It is often difficult for the external people to understand, indeed, that during the absences, the women of soldiers are available for their friends, they have time of them and need some, but when the return of the men arrives, indeed they share with them each moment, like catching up with wasted time, because it very well is known… They will set out again…

During the absences, one should not weaken, he is necessary to remain strong, he is necessary to assume not to lose all that was built.

Personally I always try to reassure it to the maximum, because for him the absences are hard to also live, often world cup and about their family, he is concerned with what occurs in my life.

To live the distance and the risks related to its trade “Provided that it returns whole here is” in an anguish and from size! During all the , one says oneself provided that it arrives to him nothing, provided that all occurs well. Me I have a terrible jitter each time, I have evil to sleep, I always scan a news with the television news or on Internet, I await appeals and I run the every day to my letterbox, hoping to have a sign which could reassure me.

I do not have a child for the moment, but how not to think of the women who have some: to manage the indoctrination alone, to plan to live part of its pregnancy alone and to even be confined without the presence of its man, of the stages often difficult to cross to two, then only imagine and in addition to having heading that the dad or the future dad is spirit to risk his life with the other end of the ground. A great pain for the father also, the fact of not being there for the great moment and the most beautiful moments.

It is a lifestyle choice which I made and which I assume in his totality, even if it is difficult, I am very happy to be able to share invaluable moments with my man when it is there… and it returns it so well to me… It is certainly in Afghanistan but I do not await that a thing it is its return, that for which one prepares five months in advance so that it is perfect and each time it is as a new history which starts.

The women of soldier only complain very seldom and they evolved/moved… One assumes oneself, one listens, one comforts, one helps oneself and one exists… It is what that the women of soldiers are so strong and so fragile at the same time.

But on another side it is fantastic, everyone is not likely to be able to devote its life to its couple, his/her children, its passions, to have time to deal with oneself.

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? June 8th, 5002 17:13, by

Hello,

I read with a very detailed attention this item. I am me even woman of soldier and this text reflects exactly that of which I think.

It is necessary to be strong, to know to have patience and to encourage its spouse because for him also it is hard (especially in )

These make it possible nevertheless to weave links with other women of soldiers. Certain friend (E) S cannot understand, but can one be upset with them? To understand it is necessary for all to be concerned, to have a similar experiment. Of or importance to discuss with other women soldiers. Moreover with Internet and the multitude of forums the exchanges are facilitated. (Small thought of and Pauline)

Moreover, one should not, in my opinion to fear separation, because as I rather often repeat it “far from the eyes but very close to the core”

In what relates to me, this brings us closer my spouse and me, because it returns to us more extremely and proves to us that even far one likes even more!!! The distance is a good proof of love.

All in all, it is necessary to cling and the elbows!

Good courage with all

(Darling I love you)

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? June 8th, 5002 17:16, by

I is completely of agreement with the item being me same woman of soldier it is true that one counts the days, one provides for arrived to them, one awaits signs of life of their share, which one feels it is completely its: the stress, the ball the belly of the information starts, the it is true that to discuss with women soldier its support to us one gives can speak about our anguishes of our fear without being made criticize because the “other” which do not know that one has to change my life to be with him.

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? June 8th, 5002 17:22, by

Hello,

I read with a very detailed attention this item. I am me even woman of soldier and this text reflects exactly that of which I think.

It is necessary to be strong, to know to have patience and to encourage its spouse because for him also it is hard (especially in )

It is also necessary to be occupied because all, of the expensive and tender sound leaves a great vacuum.

Moreover one with always fear that it arrives to him something, and at the end of a few days without news, the stress does not save to us. The anguish thus becomes our only partner…

But these makes it possible nevertheless to weave links with other women of soldiers. Certain friend (E) S cannot understand, but can one be upset with them? To understand it is necessary for all to be concerned, to have a similar experiment. Of or importance to discuss with other women soldier. (Small thought of , and Pauline)

In addition, one should not, in my opinion to fear separation. It is the trade which wants that. And as I rather often repeat it “far from the eyes but very close to the core”

In what relates to me, separations bring us closer my spouse and me, because they return to us more extremely and prove us that even far one likes even more!!! The distance is a good proof of love.

All in all, it is necessary to cling and the elbows!

Good courage with all

(Darling I love you)

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? June 16th, 9508 08:47, by extremely has you

I am completely with you C really a means of weaving links strong in the same couple if separations are hard the meeting again are really a climb of love each time

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? June 30th, 9808 17:48, by Audrey

Hello with all! I have just read your items and I am happy of reading your experiments. I have been me even with a soldier for three months and it is the insane love but the situation is not obvious, because it is with the regiment of and me I live on Toulon with my two year old son. He taught me there' has one week that he left in in March in for nths and I distress really much! I am very afraid to let it leave I do not show him quite to the contrary I want that it does what it likes and I know that its trade it is all its life then I will always push it to evolve/move but I am afraid not to support his absence then by reading your comments that showed good to me that there are women who hold out because it is true that in my entourage much of people judgments relate to the soldiers and that aggravates me because I never was as well as since I it. Still thank you for your items that gives again hope, if ever it there has women of soldiers who would like to correspond with me to reassure me a little because it is very new for me it would be nice I am called Audrey, I have 24 years a two year old little boy which do not have to it his and it is as for that as I worry (compared to the 2 years missions etc ......) thank you in advance. contact@mdmarines.com

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? July 3rd, 2004 64:00, by

hello with all you who summers so courageous all as you I life with a soldier since one years and half I knew a first October at February in #FFFFFF coast the beginning one be hard but the return be magic but I am really to despair it sets out again in 15 days for a nths mission in Chad I it is learned yesterday morning it is an urgency it need him since I only makes think of it unceasingly and to cry I tell myself who remain to him 1 years and half with the army and which after it is finished one food a peaceful life has 2! one likes much I really hope that all well will occur for us because 2 in one year C hard has to swallow! good courage has to you all and has our man of course!

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? July 5th, 2503 30:36, by

has all, me military mm but it is different not Marseilles, in a colleague who is the regiment of the paras of castrate and it left last week for Afghanistan and knowledge how I can have news regularly… it spoke to me about a forum woman kind of soldier or what and often of the news of all these soldiers which St left to it low, but pitch have to reach it…

thank you by advance I wish you good courage has all!!!

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? July 24th, 2053 15:25, by Natacha

hello, I have been in the same case, one knows myself for one year, I live in Nice, is to him in Lyon, but one C really considering only a few days, much of telephone those says it LOL between his absences, our cuts, one is left, it me recall, one recovers together… Ca to from the evil to be started a little, but one likes, one it is re-examined a few days ago and like each time C super, but here him also it will leave nths to Afghanistan and him undergo any Ca, I do not want moreover it to make me have one child who isn't him, it tells me that I waste my life… it do not want that I suffer… but me I like it, it to leave little in any event I would await it… I wanted to know about all them how much days or weeks you have news when they leave like Ca? it is my more great fear, not to know how it goes…

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? July 25th, 0508 00:04, by (July 25th)

Hello with all! I am called and I have 28ans and like you, I am with a soldier and very in love. That however makes only is. My man has just left for Afghanistan and this for is. The stress to leave it, this long absence and the fear that it arrives to him thing are quite present. In your items, you known as that the meeting again are fantastic; then I sincerely hope to also live that on his return. It is certain that everyone does not understand these anguishes and all these questions which one can put one only finds, to await our man. Then, needing support of people like you, if you wish to communicate with me, here my address : contact@mdmarines.com do not hesitate; perhaps with soon, thank you

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? August 27th, 2503 30:11, by woman of

Hello all this item has describe really all that I can feel, my companion have just left, finally since is to Afghanistan, because like these so quite known as one counts the days. This is the worst of all and stress management not! One learns just more or less well has to live with! Each displacement is source of anguish major and difficult this to feel sorry for… For my part I rather badly it life. Good courage has all

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? September 16th, 2002 08:05, by

hello I am called Michele that made 13 years that I share my life with my husband. the years pass and the lack at the time of its absences is always also large one is not accustomed one life with. during revolving to be sad nothing to make appear to the children yes to be woman of soldier and to remain it is necessary to be strong good courage has to forget not if there were not the absences we the joys of the return. the routine not in our life

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? September 23rd, 9808 17:54, by

All your words make good. As Michele I have been with a soldier for thirteen years, it has just left for Afghanistan. I feel very badly, but I remain smiling in front of the children. The nights are difficult, I sometimes let themselves invade by anguishes and terrible fears, I wonder whether I will re-examine it, it is very hard to manage. Fortunately I have my work and my children, but the are really of cruel and of testing. The reunion is superb, the routine does not exist, but the absences are a true torture.

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? September 23rd, 2004 64:11, by

Hello with all!

I have been with a soldier for nths now and it left in to Lebanon at the end of the 3rd month relation. Many people did not think that I will hold out and that I will await it, it returns the next week and I am always there. I find myself what is known as above in item Ci, I find that this experiment is also very beneficial for the couple, and brought to me personally. I hold to address to me to all the women who discover the life of woman of and the 1st , just to reassure them because in spite of the anguishes and the lack if you can occupy your days, time passes rather quickly, if the feelings are rather deep separation will do nothing but intensify the links which link you to start again something of still better on its return. The consulting, keep your cold blood in spite of the lack, because it is separation and this desire for re-examining the other which is at the origin of voltages which created surface conflicts what makes the distance even more difficult. Courage with all, and do not forget what does not kill to us makes to us stronger!

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? September 23rd, 2002 08:39, by a darling who awaits her soldier…

Hello with all! Three years that we are together… and already two … One with the in 2006 and the second: in Afghanistan, since two months and 7 days… It is on this is more distressing (especially following the recent events); admittedly even more love between us but especially more fear, more absence, more lack… We do not have children yet; fortunately finally! (I would not manage to manage me and manage the children… during these four interminable months; already that we see ourselves only the weekend because of its work place.) Each time these is true proofs for our couple, but let us come out we from it wounded, but even stronger!! And thanks to Internet, we rather often communicate!! (Thank you Internet!) Then, I await only one thing: its return!! Good courage with all!!!

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? September 24th, 2548 97:30

I read all these items of women of soldier, I am me even reservist, and it sometimes happens to me to meet women of soldier sometimes, they are very strong mentally, but a life of military career can be made only to two unless remaining unmarried, the force of your husbands or joint it is you the women and that your all medals of the world, that made of you of truths women of honor, be strong for your children and your men.

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? September 26th, 9808 17:30, by Miles

I took my retreat after thirty five years of service in the infantry. When we married, it was twenty years old and I had twenty-four of them. In operation or detachment sometimes during whole years (without Internet, telephone), I always could count on his admirable solidity. We had three children whom it raised magnificently. In all the regiments where I was affected, it always dealt with the other wives with a total devotion. It deserves more than me all the medals, all the stars…

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? September 26th, 9003 89:33, by Far but near

Hello with you, I have been in couple for 8 years with a soldier who leaves regularly in . There is no during which I would not have had a concern… especially at the time of of the #FFFFFF Coast type (at the time of events which made carry mourning to some among us) or Afghanistan. Unfortunately, one can nothing make there if is not to support and to like without condition the man with which have saw. As I work far from on our premises, I do not have time to go to the meeting of other wives of soldiers and it is able to me to well only feel rather often. I miss my spouse always as much and we like very extremely. I always hope that it will return to me without any wound. Courage with all, we have some and must have some!

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? September 27th, 7408 75:54, by Jenny

cuckoo the core by reading you my darling with I am more than two years and soldier also and in in this moment in Chad that nths it I will make are misses it/him enormously I am done too many concern C long is I will die about it but I the neck for our daughter and for him he deserve it good here are kisses

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? September 30th, 9003 89:24, by

My man is embarking for then I am in inside. There first and first long separation… one feels really in these moments finally for my part in any case' has moments there when I will very feel well then blow I will panic with dead but faith only a second: (but that is enough to thank you tie your core… for this site that reassures to see that one is not alone there in this case.

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? October 6th, 2004 64:55, by Jean Marie

Old 57 years I left to Djibouti into 77 with a baby is and with much of I clear up succeeded with my under making join my wife and my son and nths later we were 4. But at the time it was calmer. I understand you all I know what a separation wants to say.

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? October 8th, 2678 12:53, by Jean-Michel

Old , 30 years of service, and separations you want some, in here. One of them lasted two years. I was in stay and we were not married. And as she wished to keep her employment, not voyage for her. At the end of one year, it came for 6 weeks from holidays. As it took again the aircraft to enter to France, one was told, goodbye, with in one year! At the time pitch of Internet nor of portable, just mail. I blackened pages and it too. On my return, I affected in Germany and here we are set out again for geographical celibacy with 500 of gap during 5 years. But the was there. And 28 years afterwards, that always holds. Mesdames, known as you although if one holds, it is thanks to you, with your confidence, your support. Whereas often, it is as, even more difficult for you as for us. You must at the same time be the mother and the father, but return our place to us to the return, manage our absence for you but also for the children, follow the school, ensure the unforeseen ones, comfort the children, follow the schooling and sometimes continue your employment etc, etc… In short you are fantastic women. Some among you told, it is necessary to cling so marvellous reunion at this time. It is most beautiful of the moments. Cheer and thank you with you, the women of soldiers.

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? October 13rd, 5002 17:59, by mom of soldier

thinks - T one also of the mothers of the soldiers? Who necessarily didn't dream to have a son in Afghanistan, but who supports it in his choice?

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? October 20th, 2002 08:07

hello has all and your evidences make hot in the middle as much those of the men that those of the women I have been with my husband for 8 years, on without speaking about the permanent training courses in this moment it is in training course for nths and one does not see ' at December 13rd, in more I was confined only of our last hard hard child but it is necessary to hold good they have of our force and our support to leave quiet and when the absence is too hard he is necessary to fight even more extremely to think of the good memories and with those to come then be high and good courage

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? October 21st, 2048 22:09, by Patrick in Switzerland

Hello with all and all,

It is a little by chance that I fell on this site but I felt fully related to with his contents.

As a warrant officer of career of the Swiss Army, married and a father of two girls, I was also brought to live what more the share of enters of writes to you in their remarks but on the other side of the mirror is in .

The lived experiments, the discussions with comrades but also the long discussions with my wife and my daughters led me to choose this subject for the work of diploma which I am writing within the framework of the European Academy of the higher warrant officers.

The bond of my work is the following: “To know to manage the absence, how a soldier can it support and accompany his front family, during and after a commitment abroad?”.

If you wish to make me by your experiments, communicate certain “tricks” that you set up with your spouse (E) to pass this course, it is with pleasure that I await your emails.

Yours sincerely

Cordial greetings of Switzerland

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? November 8th, 5002 17:41, by

I read this item with the tears with the eyes!

I am 19 years old shares my life with me also a soldier who did 23 that of it 4 years that we are together!

It is also currently left in to Afghanistan!

How of writing very well this item it shows us all the sacrifices which one can make by love! Pains, the distance, the sorrow but also love, happiness and reunion!

I wish full with courage has to you all and all! Kisses

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? November 8th, 5002 17:53, by Patricia

Hello with all and all

I fell by on this site. That makes me good. I have been very in love for nths with a soldier. We unfortunately did not can yet see us. Normally within three weeks, should be to us together. I tell well “normally” - That is really very hard, but thank you Internet, thank you and the telephone. Since we know each other, I put myself many people at back, because nobody understands this situation. I am in love, and we do not see ourselves, it is very hard to believe for many people. Much is allowed to dirty it, to say that it makes fun of me, because if it wanted it we could be together. But they do not know this life. I did not think that I would be able to live that either, but I really like it very extremely and I am ready to await it. To be able to read your evidences, that really made good. To be able to speak with women about soldiers would comfort me. Perhaps that you either you cannot believe that we can like well that not considering. But I ensure you that I rely whole on him. Some tell me that with my age, (my twenty years are far) I am insane to accept as that a man whom I did not see, but I like it really sincerely and I know that he likes me and that he is sincere with me. here my email, contact@mdmarines.com - thank you in advance.

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? November 19th, 2002 08:47, by

I have come on this site for also reading me with a soldier for 4 years I always fear the departures it leaves in February and I am already on the nerves I waste the nths that they remain us together but I am unverifiable and inconsolable however it is the last departure, for me hardest! your consultings will be welcome thank you

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? November 24th, 2548 97:50, by

I fall on this item which I find very just and who touch me. Moreover, I leave to join my husband who is soldier in Germany. Indeed, the distance and the return tickets all the become heavy with time. I thus decided to leave to live with him in this country. I thus will have to accustom me to live far from my family, my friends. I am posed very full with questions about my life over there. but I am so glad to join it to be able to live with the daily newspaper with him and to share more things. Then a is announced for February then I will be “alone” in Germany while hoping to have to find occupations and friendly relations from here its departure. Good day with all.

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? November 24th, 7408 75:19, by

I have been a woman of soldier for 11 years, we have 3 children of 10,7 and 3 years, fantastic this item, one finds all insides, certain people besides should read it to be reported of what one saw… Our love is our force, our reunion is magic each time, even if the are often difficult to surmount… my husband are currently in and re-enter in 21 days (that appears to me to be still an eternity)… I also liked the comment of Jean-Michel, there are far too many generally accepted ideas on the soldiers, and there is only on women of soldiers whom one can hope to support us!!!! a little this spirit cohesion that our husbands make us shared!!! Courage with all, and all… because as you I think only at this time fantastic that are the reunion… and the glance very filled with wonder at the children seeing their dad re-entering…

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? November 26th, 5008 47:48, by

me also I am with a soldier and fortunately that my trade occupies me but hardest it is the evening and the when it I love you does not re-enter that these very long, I find same if the distance our separate our love is stronger, in can of time it leaves is in its will be a proof of our love, my love

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? November 27th, 7408 75:43, by

I read you all and it is enough moving these evidences. I lived 8 in 10 years… and that made 16 years that we are together. All does not know always quite last, but today my husband east left in retreat… after 22 services and we regret this period… not humdrum routine… of difficult separations and reunion if awaited… these separations one be positive for our stability of couple!

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? November 27th, 5008 47:27, by Kit

Hello with all,

I read with interest all the comments, but it is necessary nevertheless that I push a small blow of : Am I really the only one with living completely normally, who my soldier of husband (10 years of ) is at the house or in ? One is transferred? And well, I still always was a work. Geographical celibacy while waiting to find. It leaves in ? And, that made well of the good also have time for oneself and its friends, and of the risks, it takes the every day of them as much by making m to go to the job, yes, yes, read the statistics… And the return, it is always fantastic. I only move? And then? One leaves for Germany - I learn the language and I am made friends… Franchement, I prefer by far this life there with the small daily routine of much of couples…

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? December 7th, 2548 97:49

My friend has left to Chad for one month and not easy, between the job with difficult schedules and the re-entry with the college of my son. Daily worries without man the stress go up very quickly. Moreover, to the such pitch always easy all to tell, and sometimes the tone installs it quickly is damage. I like it and I miss it/him. Life is hard without him. Still more than nths.

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? December 7th, 0005 49:36, by .

Me also I am woman of soldier and old military. It was necessary for me but without regret to leave the trade which I liked so much and for which I fought so much, overridden and that I exerted with honor, sincerity and with the greatest conviction. I miss it/him but I always live it through my husband him in the middle of the share. it is a little hard to remain in “base camp” but I do not regret it because my 5 children fill me happiness and my husband is true: no the place for the routine “but that of anguish. To only manage family, house, silence, insulation, small pain, lowers the moral one (the and those of my children which more they grow, plus them are strong). Even when it is there, its trade is not a job with 8:00 belongs to our life to the daily newspaper (one lives with, one sleeps, with one eats with, one leaves on vacation with… C is even him which plans our holidays!!! 45 days without the but aximum of taken per annum! without quite sour compensation. in any event, it is not with the money that one wants to share time then! ) I am in a hurry that my finishes its command but I know well that after, his function will be always also is that to be a soldier” a truth “; Our trade is a commitment so strong and present in our life and that of our sums not of the families like the others. we are forwarded to the rate/rhythm and the pressures of this trade; all large like small. And when there are even more! often the school tell us” your children in this moment!!! must one laugh or cry. It is a little normal. one asks him to make as if all were well whereas its life . It is hard for all. That which is in which will fill by what it can not to crack; and for those which remains. The return also is hard is not necessary to believe. Reactions of the children, cruel but so innocent. They to feel less liked than the work of dad or mom, the practices taken during these so long absences and often repeated… me, I wish that arrive the retreat to hope to have finally a calm life and about normal because I know that it is not that a have to leave the institution and that was very hard at the beginning it is my husband who being still inside allows me to leave slowly and correctly. He also that will be hard. The retreat of the soldiers more than is deserved for them, their spouse and the children who finally will see this draft being posed. Finally to be able to weave of true relation parents children even if times it is difficult because the children remain marked by the felt absence very small. C is also for that which I left my did not want children to make them undergo my choices, my did not want to make them grow too quickly, to make them pass beside their childhood because that will not be caught up with and that marks with life. Friendship with all and let us be strong for our children so that they are flared as well as possible in these circumstances and for our husbands who counts on us. It should this be said that there is always worse. Let us cry only the evening in our beds and smile like we know so well to do it in front of the .

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? December 22nd, 1008 73:15, by

I have just met a super man who is soldier. He is afraid which our history stops because of its trade and its . However I reassured it by telling him that I accepted his trade and that I would await it. How do I can reassure it of advantage, that he believes me finally? I do not want to lose it I hold too much with him.

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Women of soldiers. But what returns to us so strong? January 1st, 23: 27, by

Hello has all!! I looked at documentary on the army when I am find on this site. Indeed, me also I live with a soldier!! Patrice, my been engaged east engages in the custom , armed force American since 15ans. I have it meeting in France by the of my father nths ago. The evening of our meeting all was very quickly. It was its departure day before for Iraq, the only thing which it knew to tell me is to await it during its nine months of absence. I have only accept this challenge knowing it very little. One month ago and half, it made me the surprise re-enter. I was on my work place, to imagine my reaction when the front door it is opened and that I saw it entered!!! Since its departure my life is not similar any more. My feelings are strengthen and I await it more from now on than ever. Its return is provided for on May 4th!!!!!

And he told me a sentence which touched me much and which I would like has all to dedicate to you: how in spite of the distance I know am with you with , in your thoughts, your dreams but especially in your body!!! If one of you wishes to react I leave you my email contact@mdmarines.com

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