Betrayal in a Relationship

God is protector of marriages. Then what kind ofsomebody to do that. We can’t force anybody.
feelings we have sometimes for other person? IsThis is a matter of the system of values. But there
that love? And if it is – does that gives us causeare weak people who cannot manage. They
to betray? And what happened to – “Do notcan’t resist temptations and they can’t
betray”? There is always a possibility to meetovercome them. They can’t even try. I do not
someone who is more interesting and clever, who isblame this people. I pray for them and have pity on
kinder and better your partner in many ways. Andthem. I am not saying that it is easy. It is not. Not at
you are going to like that. You can even have aall. That will cost you a lot of pain probably. You will
kindly feeling. But that does not mean that you havesuffer. You will feel unhappy. But at the end you will
to follow blindly and without thinking your attractionwin. You will keep that what you think is valuable in
to this person. You may have many temptations inyour life. You will not destroy your feelings to your
life and you will.partner betraying him/her. I respect people who can
Can you succumb to all of them? Can you call themdo that. They are fighters. They think. They are
love? By my opinion the right thing to do is to fightstrong. Their partners should be very proud to have
that feeling and attraction. Because you have to runthem because you can always count on people like
away from temptations. This is from evil. It willthat. And who is able to resist the temptations that
destroy all you have and you will hurt people whoperson is able to be a good partner, a good friend
love you very badly. The point is to realize that youand parent. What else do we need in life?
can make yourself not to love that person. AndIt is my believe that we don’t have to betray
when you do that you will find out that there isour partners no matter what we feel to another
nothing in the world that can compare to yourperson. These feelings are not as permanent as we
partner. It is difficult, I know, and it takes time. Butthink and all the time they may look like love to us.
the most important thing in situations like this is thatBut these weak people will never experience the
you have to know that you must resist. You have tosatisfaction of the real love, the joy of the
understand that your family and your partner is yourachievement, they will never be truly happy. All their
own duty and nobody else’s. That marriage islives they will steal minutes of short-lived happiness
not only passion but also duty and dedication.but they will be really very short. Do you think it is
Christianity says we have to do anything toworth?
overcome that feeling. But we can’t make