| One of the most crazy and hard times is when your | | | | 2) Tell him about your days and whats going on, the |
| boyfriend joins the military. This war is a confusing | | | | boring details are all he has of home. |
| and difficult time. Nobody knows that better than the | | | | 3) He no doubt misses home more than anything so |
| person who makes the choice to defend their | | | | be his connection to home, keep him updated. |
| country and make a career of the military. This is | | | | Not only has he changed but you will have as well |
| really hard for you but don't forget about him. He's | | | | and this could build a stronger bond between you as |
| actually trying to do something with his life. The times | | | | you get to know each other again. Life experiences |
| we live in makes it really hard for a young man to | | | | often build relationships especially when you share |
| build a secure future. It is often the pressure to | | | | these experiences with each other. His coming home |
| prove to a girl friend that he can provide for her that | | | | reunion is one of those moments and it's important |
| tips the scale to his decision. It's hard to be away | | | | that you ask him what he wants to happen and |
| from family and friends so your guy will no doubt | | | | follow his request. If he doesn't want parties don't |
| mature a lot and go through many changes. | | | | throw one. |
| If you broke up with your boyfriend because he | | | | While you're waiting for him to return home brush up |
| made a choice to join the military you may now find | | | | on your relationship skills by reading a few good |
| you miss him and want him back. When he comes | | | | books or watching helpful videos on relationship skills. |
| home you can help him adjust to the changes he's | | | | There one thing he has missed more than anything |
| gone through. He will naturally need someone to hang | | | | and that's the comfort and security of home. You |
| with as he reconnects with family and friends and | | | | can be a big part of that comfort and security of |
| you could be that person. Contact him and let him | | | | home by growing for the better and changing. He will |
| know you will be waiting for him when he gets back. | | | | note the difference in you and relate to your |
| Remember | | | | changes. The changes in both you will bring you |
| 1) He's alone and has a lot of free time, write, email | | | | closer together. |
| and text him, anything will help connect again. | | | | |