Remembering Father on Father's Day

Dedicated to My Father, My Husband, and My GodThere's a quote by Billy Graham, a well-known
My father was a First Sergeant in the Marine Corps,Christian Evangelist who said, "A good father is one
serving in the Vietnam War. He came home withof the most unsung, unpraised, unnoticed, and yet
wounds and purple hearts to show for it.one of the most valuable assets in our society."
I was born during that time in November of 1967. HeI agree with Billy Graham; fathers do so much, they
was there a few days after I was born but had tomean so much and are valuable in our society, but
return to Vietnam shortly after. He may have comeare not given the praise and appreciation they
home another time when I was very little, but I don'tdeserve. I pray that this Father's Day you would
remember. I remember seeing him for the first timehonor your fathers, husbands, brothers and any men
when I was about five years old.you know in this important role and bless them with
I still remember the day he came home from theyour words of affirmation, your actions and your
war. My mother, brothers and I were standing rightlove for all they do. While you are doing this, don't
outside on the blacktop where the planes landed,forget you also have a Heavenly Father who loves
waiting anxiously for him to walk out.you and is right there with you.
Suddenly, a handsome young man dressed in a beigeI would like to make a special dedication to my
Marine uniform with medals swarming the side of hisfather, David Jaffa Solomon, my husband, Daniel
chest and wearing a sharp hat to match startedWiedenhoff, and my Heavenly Father.
walking toward us. I remember my mother bendingMy father is now in heaven but I know I will see him
down beside me, whispering in my ear saying, "That'sagain. I just want to say, "Dad, I salute you with all
your father." Without any hesitation I remembermy heart and I'm so proud of you. Thank you for
running up to him as fast as I could, opening up myloving me, my family and my country. I love you and
arms and jumping right into his chest. He caught meI will see you again!"
in the air, hugging me tight, swinging me aroundTo my husband, Dan, "Thank you for being a
laughing with the biggest smile I ever saw.wonderful father; for all that you do, your hard work,
At that moment in time it didn't matter that I didn'tlabor of love and commitment to taking care of your
know him; all I knew was he was my father and Ifamily, even when you are tired or don't feel like it.
loved him and he obviously loved me back. It wasNo matter what, you still get up and go to work
the beginning of a new relationship and I couldn't waitevery day to provide for us. We love you,
to get started.appreciate you, and thank you for all you do!"
Our relationship never changed from that day. I wasTo my God and Heavenly Father, "Thank You for
daddy's little girl (and only girl) so I can honestly say Isacrificing Your only Son to give us eternal life. Thank
was indeed spoiled and my three brothers, Jaffa,you for Your unconditional love that never fails, Your
John, and James can all testify to that fact, but theyconsistent caring for us, and for never leaving nor
were okay with it being that I was a "girl" and all.forsaking us. There is nothing in this world I could
There's something special about a father's love thatgive You to express my gratitude for all You have
makes us feel secure, protected and grounded indone for us and are still doing, except to say my
who we are. Perhaps it's because of their strongprayer is that we could show You our appreciation
stature, their demeanor, or the fact that we knowby living a life which honors You and glorifies Your
they go to work day in and day out to support thename. Thank You so much and we love You!"
family, whether they feel like it or not. It's not aTo all you fathers, "Happy Father's Day!" May you be
conscious thought on our part, it's just a sense ofblessed this day with peace, love and many blessings.
comfort and security knowing they are there.We honor you and we appreciate you for all you do!